The time has come to farewell another year done. To welcome in the next 12 months, make those resolutions and reflect on what has been.
So much has happened for us this year.
My job is steady while my husband has just started his third due to unforgiving circumstances.
We got through the red tape that is the Govt with finances and are on the way to building our first home – there is much to learn and we look forward to this.
Mr 20 is cruising along with the gf and work and invites himself to dinner on regular basis.
Mr 17 finished year 11 and within a week gained himself an electrical apprenticeship. We are ecstatic and he is happy in his quiet, unassuming way.
Mr 12 has finished grade 6, getting ready for the journey that is High School and in February will become a teenager – fun times ahead.
My running has taken me on an incredible journey. I have learnt so much, and from not even making 400 kms to nearly hitting 1100 kms in a year. I’ve run a marathon with two more planned for 2017. I am super proud of what I’ve achieved.
Our family has grown so much this year. A new strength and resilience resides within us. A certain peace and happiness that can only come from new learnings and each other is present.
The new year will bring new adventures, new knowledge and more growth. There is always something new to learn – about ourselves and the world around us.
I’m so proud of my family, the things we have done this year is incredible, the support we have for each other, and the closeness that is there is the best feeling.
I look forward to a happy, productive and amazing new year. Not everything goes the way we want it, it’s our response to that which shapes the outcome, shows us who we really are and what we are capable of.
Have a great new year and I hope the sun shines more than it rains and you smile more than you cry.
Quite some time ago I was in the State library and found this great little book which I just had to pick it up. I mean the title ^^ says it all.
The blurb on the back reads
“…you wont find a singsong entry in this book that says ‘magic happens’…There are no pictures of cuddly animals…It’s the stuff I wish somebody, anybody had told me twenty years ago…”
That got me intrigued… A section for her daughter and a section for her son…. But I think they work equally as well either way.
Be kind, its the most attractive quality you’ll ever possess.
Remember people’s names – unles it’s the guy who rides the motorbike.
Never throw a drink in a guys face. It’s not high drama. It’s cheap. Walk away. On the other hand, if he’s groped you, make sure the glass is nice and full.
Take lots of photos – you think you look dorky now. Trust me, you look fantastic girl, and you’ll appreciate the memories.
Learn to fight. I don’t care if its boxing or jujitsu. The rule is you never get phyiscal unless they touch you or a woman. Then you’ll know how to break their jaw.
Respect cops. You don’t have to like them, but appreciate the job they do. It’s a brutal occupation and they’re the first people you call when the shit hits the fan.
Notice detail. An unfilled glass at a party, a new hairstyle, a certain angle of penetration. Women love it when you remember the little things.
And that’s it for today’s wisdom.
Hardware for Mr 10,
Clothes for Mr 15,
Travel agent for me.
Time for coffee.
Mid afternoon, Huonville,
Warm, sunny, a little breeze.
A five minute break and snack with Mr 9,
After collection from a sleep over.
Yesterday’s post, was posted in haste. And thinking back, I daren’t read it again, it was rather negative, despite something totally exciting that happened minutes earlier.
So here is something a little more positive, because when all is said and done, it was a good year, and lots of amazing things happened.
– hubby and I took a weekend away to somewhere we haven’t been, and had a ball.
– I turned 40! and was completely spoilt by hubby and kids, family and friends.
– I made some awesome new friends and found out this is where I belong. I found that something special and I love it.
– my eldest got his first girlfriend (still going strong) and also has his drivers licence.
– I let the inner bikie chick out and am now officially hooked.
– started on an amazing journey through the tangled mess of Market management and made a great friend in the process.
– went from knowing absolutely nothing in my very casual job to knowing quite a bit and being confident in my competence in the process.
– and at the eleventh hour on NYE had an amazing thing happen (which will be revealed all in good time. believe me, I hate not being able to tell, but wait I must, and no I am not pregnant) which is mega exciting to me, maybe not everyone else.
– and most of all, watched my kids grow a little more into mature and responsible (for the most part) people.
This year is going to be big.
My kids turn (in order of birthdays) 15, 10 and 18.
Hubby is progressing in big ways with his work.
My craft will be taking a new turn – I really need to settle on one thing, but I love trying out new things – and taking a step up.
And because my hubby is so awesome, I am doing something amazing!!
Have a great new year, may all your dreams come true – if not, I hope you can work your way closer to them – and keep close to those that make you feel good.
Embrace the new, and kick out the old,
Follow the path, for it leads in many directions,
choose your destination, the sky is the limit.
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